Making Your Voice Heard

Making Your Voice Heard

The Abbwell Group

The Abbwell Group

06/08/2025

Steps to Take When Your NDIS Planner Isn’t Listening

Introduction

Having your NDIS plan come up for review can be a time of both hope and stress. You may have new goals or support needs, and you rely on your NDIS plan to provide the necessary funding to meet them. But what happens if, during the review, your NDIS planner isn’t really listening or doesn’t seem to understand your needs?

Unfortunately, this situation is not uncommon. The good news is that you are not powerless, there are steps you can take to ensure your voice is heard and that your rights are respected.

This blog post will guide you through what to do when you feel unheard in an NDIS plan review. We’ll explain your rights under the NDIS Participant Service Charter and how it sets expectations for how planners should treat you, outline ways to advocate for better outcomes (including formal steps like requesting a review or making a complaint), discuss common issues that can arise during plan reviews, and provide practical tips to help you feel empowered and supported throughout the process.

Your planner should take the time to understand your individual situation and needs, rather than rushing or dismissing your input.

Understanding Your Rights: The NDIS Participant Service Charter

The NDIS Participant Service Charter is essentially a promise from the National Disability Insurance Agency (NDIA) about how they will treat participants. It outlines the rights and expectations you can have when engaging with the NDIS.

According to the Participant Service Charter, you should be treated with respect, have your concerns listened to, and receive clear communication and timely responses from the NDIA. This means that during a plan review, your planner should take the time to understand your individual situation and needs, rather than rushing or dismissing your input. If you feel like your planner is not listening or not providing supports that truly meet your disability needs, it may be helpful to remind them (politely) of the Participant Service Charter commitments. For instance, one commitment is to be responsive and transparent, which means the NDIA should respond to your queries and clearly explain their decisions. Another commitment is to be respectful, ensuring you are heard and valued in discussions about your plan. Knowing that these standards exist can empower you to speak up if you feel those expectations aren’t being met.

Importantly, the Service Charter aligns with your rights as a participant. You have the right to ask questions, seek explanations for decisions, and expect that decisions about your plan are made fairly and based on evidence. The NDIS also has a Participant Service Guarantee which sets timeframes for key processes and reinforces the promise of good service. For example, under this guarantee, the NDIA must complete plan reviews within a certain timeframe and keep you informed throughout the process. All of this is meant to ensure you aren’t left in the dark or treated poorly. If those principles are not being upheld in your case, you have grounds to raise concerns and advocate for better treatment.

Some participants have experienced significant cuts to therapies or support hours without clear justification.

It’s frustrating when you have doctors’ or therapists’ reports that clearly outline your needs, yet those recommendations aren’t reflected in your plan. Some participants find that despite submitting detailed evidence (like psychological assessments or occupational therapy reports), the planner’s decisions seem to ignore these documents.

Common Issues During Plan Reviews

Plan reviews are meant to update your supports to match your current needs and goals, but sometimes problems arise. Knowing common issues can help you prepare and recognise if they happen to you. Here are some frequent challenges participants report during plan review meetings:

  • Funding Cuts or Inadequate Funding: You might find that your new plan has less funding than before, or doesn’t include certain supports you were expecting. This can happen even when your needs have increased or stayed the same, leaving you wondering why your supports were reduced. Some participants have experienced significant cuts to therapies or support hours without clear justification.
  • Misunderstanding of Support Needs: Planners may sometimes not fully understand your disability or the complexity of your support needs. For example, they might assume you can manage with fewer support worker hours than you really need, or they may not grasp why a particular therapy or piece of equipment is vital for you. This can happen if the planner is not familiar with your specific condition or if they don’t thoroughly review the medical reports and expert recommendations you provide.
  • Disregard for Medical or Expert Reports: It’s frustrating when you have doctors’ or therapists’ reports that clearly outline your needs, yet those recommendations aren’t reflected in your plan. Some participants find that despite submitting detailed evidence (like psychological assessments or occupational therapy reports), the planner’s decisions seem to ignore these documents. This might result in the denial of funding for supports that professionals have deemed necessary.
  • Poor Communication or Feeling Rushed: You might feel that the planner is rushing through the meeting or using a lot of jargon. Maybe they’re not asking for your input on your goals, or they’re not explaining the reasons behind certain decisions. Communication issues like these can leave you feeling confused or sidelined in a process that should centre on you and your goals.
  • Goals and Supports Not Aligned: In some cases, the plan that comes back doesn’t seem to match what you discussed. For instance, you might have emphasised a goal of becoming more independent at home, but the plan doesn’t include funding for the assistive technology or home modifications you need to achieve that. This disconnect can happen if the planner focuses on a narrow view of supports or misinterprets your goals.

Recognising these common issues is important. It lets you know you’re not alone – others have faced them, too. More importantly, it prepares you to address such problems. If any of the above happen during your plan review, you can take action to challenge or clarify the outcome, which we’ll cover next.

If you feel that your NDIS planner isn’t listening or the plan outcome doesn’t meet your needs, it’s crucial to act.

If you believe the final plan decision is wrong or doesn’t meet your needs, you have the formal right to request an internal review.

If the issue isn’t just about the content of the plan but also about how you were treated (for example, you felt the planner was disrespectful, or the process did not follow proper guidelines), you can lodge a formal complaint.

Steps to Take When You’re Not Being Heard

If you feel that your NDIS planner isn’t listening or the plan outcome doesn’t meet your needs, it’s crucial to act. Here are steps you can take to advocate for yourself and seek a better result:

1. Ask for Clarification and Reasoning: Before jumping into formal processes, sometimes it helps to have a frank conversation. You can ask the planner (or their supervisor) to explain why certain decisions were made. For example, you might say, “I noticed my therapy hours were cut in the new plan. Could you help me understand the reasons for that?” The NDIA is expected to be transparent about its decisions, so you have a right to ask for the justification behind any changes. Sometimes, this conversation can clear up misunderstandings – perhaps something was missed or misinterpreted that can be corrected without a formal review. It also shows the planner that you’re paying attention and expect a valid explanation in line with NDIS guidelines (like the requirement that supports must be “reasonable and necessary”).

2. Involve a Support Coordinator or Advocate: You don’t have to go through this alone. If you have a Support Coordinator funded in your plan, they can be a great ally at review time. Support Coordinators are experienced in navigating NDIS processes and can help communicate your needs clearly to the planner. They can attend review meetings with you (in person or on the phone) to reinforce your points and ensure nothing is overlooked. Similarly, you might consider involving a disability advocate. Independent advocacy organisations (often free or funded by state/territory governments) can provide an advocate to support you in meetings or with writing letters. An advocate can help ensure your rights are upheld by speaking up on your behalf or coaching you on how to express your concerns effectively. Don’t hesitate to bring a family member, carer, or trusted friend for support as well. Having someone else in the meeting can provide moral support and another set of ears to catch essential details.

3. Request an Internal Review (Review of a Reviewable Decision): If you believe the final plan decision is wrong or doesn’t meet your needs, you have the formal right to request an internal review. This is sometimes called a review of a reviewable decision. Essentially, you are asking the NDIA to reconsider the plan decision because you disagree with it. According to the NDIS Act, you generally need to submit this request within 3 months of receiving your plan. To do this, you can fill out a form or simply write to the NDIA (by email or letter) stating which decision you want reviewed and why. Be as specific as possible about what parts of the plan need changing and provide any additional evidence that supports your case. For example, if certain therapy hours were denied, include letters from your therapists explaining why those hours are necessary for your goals. During an internal review, a different NDIA planner or officer will look at your plan with fresh eyes and decide whether to change it. It’s important to note that an internal review can potentially result in a better, same, or even a worse outcome (they might reduce something else upon review, though that is less common). However, it’s a key step in formally challenging a plan decision.

4. Make a Formal Complaint to the NDIA: If the issue isn’t just about the content of the plan but also about how you were treated (for example, you felt the planner was disrespectful, or the process did not follow proper guidelines), you can lodge a formal complaint. The NDIA has a complaints process as part of its Participant Service Charter commitments to be responsive and fix problems. You can make a complaint by calling the NDIS contact centre (dial 1800 800 110 in Australia) or by sending an email or using the online complaints form on the NDIS website. When making a complaint, clearly state what happened and why you are unhappy. For instance, “During my plan review on [date], I felt that my concerns about needing more support worker hours were dismissed without explanation. This goes against the Participant Service Charter promise to listen and respond to participants. I would like this issue addressed and a fair reconsideration of my support needs.” The NDIA will assign someone to investigate your complaint and respond to you. They might arrange a follow-up meeting or provide a written response explaining the actions they’ll take. Complaints not only potentially resolve your situation, but they also signal to the NDIA where they need to improve their services.

5. Seek an External Review (Appeal): If you’ve gone through an internal review and you’re still not satisfied with the outcome, the next formal step is an external appeal. In Australia, this is handled by the Administrative Appeals Tribunal (AAT). (Note: The government has been working on a new appeals process to replace the AAT, but the idea remains the same: an independent body will review the NDIA’s decision.) You have the right to appeal to the AAT after an internal review is completed, if you still believe the decision is incorrect. This process is more formal and can take time, but many participants have successfully used the AAT to get more appropriate plans. In an AAT appeal, you usually present your case (often with the help of an advocate or lawyer, and sometimes with additional expert evidence) as to why the NDIS plan should be changed. The NDIA will have its representatives, and the AAT will make a binding decision. It’s worth noting that not many cases actually go all the way to a hearing; often, the NDIA may settle or adjust the plan during the process when they see the strength of your evidence. If you consider going to the AAT, it’s wise to get support from an advocacy service or legal aid, as the process can be complex. Keep in mind, appealing externally is a right you have, and the Participant Service Charter’s ethos of fairness and respect extends to how the NDIA should handle things even when you challenge their decisions.

6. Contact the Commonwealth Ombudsman (if needed): If you have tried complaints or reviews and still feel that the NDIA isn’t acting fairly or following the correct process, you can contact the Commonwealth Ombudsman. The Ombudsman oversees Australian government agencies like the NDIA. They can investigate complaints about administrative actions and decisions. While the Ombudsman won’t change your plan directly, they can make recommendations or put pressure on the NDIA if they find that something was done improperly or unfairly. Reaching out to the Ombudsman is free. It’s another avenue if you feel stuck, especially if your complaint is about poor treatment or process (e.g., constant delays, lack of communication, or not adhering to the Service Charter standards).

Throughout all these steps, remember to keep records. Save emails, letters, and notes of phone conversations (including dates, times, and who you spoke to). This documentation can be very helpful if you need to escalate the issue.

You do not have to face a difficult NDIS review alone. There are people and services who can support you, both emotionally and in dealing with the system.

Getting Support: Advocates and Support Coordinators

We touched on this earlier, but it’s worth diving a bit deeper: you do not have to face a difficult NDIS review alone. There are people and services who can support you, both emotionally and in dealing with the system.

  • Support Coordinators: If your plan includes funding for support coordination, you have access to a professional who is literally tasked with helping you make the most of your NDIS plan. Good support coordinators understand NDIS rules and terminology very well. They can help you prepare for a review by organising your reports and evidence, and they can join the review meeting to advocate on your behalf. For example, they might point out to the planner how a certain support is directly related to pursuing your goals, or ensure that no critical support is overlooked during the discussion. They can also help you draft requests for internal reviews or gather additional information after a review if needed.
  • Professional Advocates: Disability advocacy organisations exist to help people with disabilities navigate complex systems like the NDIS. An advocate is independent from the NDIA. Their role is to represent your interests and make sure your voice is heard. In practice, an advocate can help you write effective letters, accompany you to meetings, or even speak for you if you find it hard to do so yourself. They also understand your rights and the NDIA’s obligations. For instance, an advocate might remind a planner, “Under the Participant Service Charter, participants have the right to be listened to and have decisions explained to them”. Having that kind of knowledgeable backup can shift the dynamic of a meeting. If you want an advocate, you can search for NDIS appeals advocacy or disability advocacy (your state). The NDIA or your local LAC can also provide contacts for free advocacy services.
  • Family, Friends, and Carers: Your personal support network can play a big role too. A family member or trusted friend who understands your daily challenges can help explain your needs in a review meeting. They can also take notes and debrief with you afterwards, to make sure you didn’t miss anything. Sometimes just having someone there boosts your confidence to speak up.
  • Healthcare and Therapy Providers: While they might not attend the meeting, your doctors or therapists can support you by providing strong written evidence. Don’t hesitate to ask your healthcare providers to write clear reports or letters before your plan review, emphasising why specific supports are essential for you. For example, a letter from your occupational therapist might explain that without daily living aids and some home modifications, you won’t be able to cook safely or shower without assistance. These concrete explanations can bolster your case and are hard for a planner to ignore when documented by a professional.

Using support doesn’t mean you’re not independent – it means you’re savvy. Even the most confident self-advocate can benefit from backup. It also takes some pressure off you to handle everything. The key is that you stay in control of the decisions, but you have others helping to ensure your message gets through loud and clear.

It’s completely understandable to feel upset if you think you’re not being heard. Try to stay as calm as you can, and keep the tone respectful. If you get angry or raise your voice, it might shift the focus away from your message. Speak firmly about what you need and why. If you feel yourself getting overwhelmed, it’s okay to take a short break (you can ask for a moment to collect your thoughts)

Practical Tips for Being Heard and Supported

Beyond the formal steps and people who can help, there are some practical strategies you can use to make sure you’re heard during your plan review:

  • Prepare and Practice: Before the review meeting, take time to prepare. Write down your main points – your goals, the supports you need, and why you need them. If you’re nervous, practice with a friend or in front of a mirror. Being clear and assertive (not aggressive, just confident) about your needs can influence how seriously the planner takes your requests.
  • Use Plain Language and Personal Examples: It’s okay to speak in everyday language; you don’t have to use NDIS jargon. In fact, explaining the impact of your disability in your own words can be very powerful. Describe a typical day and where you struggle without support. For example: “On a bad day, I can’t get out of bed without assistance. That’s why I need a support worker every morning – otherwise I can’t start my day.” These real-life examples paint a picture that numbers in a report sometimes don’t.
  • Keep the Focus on Goals and Outcomes: Frame your requests in terms of your goals and outcomes. The NDIS is all about helping you achieve your goals. So instead of just saying “I need a wheelchair upgrade,” you could say, “One of my goals is to be more active in my community, and my current wheelchair is old and breaking down, which makes it hard to leave the house. A new wheelchair would allow me to attend social activities and go to appointments safely.” Tying supports to goals makes it clearer why they are “reasonable and necessary”.
  • Don’t Be Afraid to Ask Questions: If the planner says something you don’t understand or that doesn’t sound right, ask them to clarify. You might ask, “Can you explain what you mean by that?” or “How does that decision align with the evidence I provided?” Asking questions not only gives you more information, but it subtly reminds the planner that you’re engaged and informed. It can prompt them to double-check their reasoning.
  • Stay Calm and Polite, but Firm: Emotions can run high in these meetings – after all, it’s about your life and support. It’s completely understandable to feel upset if you think you’re not being heard. Try to stay as calm as you can, and keep the tone respectful. If you get angry or raise your voice, it might shift the focus away from your message. Speak firmly about what you need and why. If you feel yourself getting overwhelmed, it’s okay to take a short break (you can ask for a moment to collect your thoughts).
  • Use the Participant Service Charter as a Reference: If the meeting is going poorly, it’s not out of line to gently reference the NDIA’s own service commitments. For example, “I want to work with you on this. I do want to note that the Participant Service Charter says participants should be listened to and have decisions explained clearly. Right now I’m feeling a bit confused about why we’re removing this support, so could we go over the reasons again?” Mentioning the Charter shows you are aware of your rights and NDIA’s obligations. It can sometimes prompt a planner to be more attentive and thorough.
  • Get It in Writing: After the review, make sure you get a copy of your new plan and any letters or documents explaining the decisions (like a “reasons for decision” letter, if available). If things were promised during the meeting (for example, the planner said they’d follow up on a question or seek further advice), note that down or send an email afterwards summarising your understanding. Having everything in writing is important in case you need to refer back to it or challenge something later.
  • Follow Up: If you haven’t heard back within the expected timeframe, or if some action was supposed to happen and it didn’t, follow up with the NDIA. Under the Participant Service Guarantee, they are supposed to communicate outcomes of a review in a timely manner. Sometimes a gentle reminder call or email can get things moving. When you follow up, reference any identifying numbers or dates from your meeting or plan to help the staff find your case quickly.

Facing an uncooperative planner or a disappointing plan review outcome can be disheartening, but remember that the NDIS is meant to support you, and you have every right to advocate for what you need.

At the end of the day, you are the expert on your life. Don’t give up if your first plan review doesn’t go the way you hoped. With the right information, support, and determination, you can navigate the NDIS bureaucracy and make sure your voice is heard. Your goals and needs matter, and you deserve a plan that truly supports you in living your best life.

Conclusion: Empowerment and Moving Forward

Facing an uncooperative planner or a disappointing plan review outcome can be disheartening, but remember that the NDIS is meant to support you, and you have every right to advocate for what you need. By understanding your rights under the Participant Service Charter and knowing the steps you can take, you put yourself in a much stronger position to get a fair result.

It might take some persistence, and the process isn’t always easy. However, each time you stand up for your needs, you’re not just helping yourself – you’re also sending a message that participants expect to be treated with fairness and respect. Over time, this can lead to broader improvements in the system for everyone.

If you’re a carer or support coordinator reading this, you play a crucial role too. You can empower the participant by informing them of their options, helping them prepare, and backing them up during challenging moments.

At the end of the day, you are the expert on your life. Don’t give up if your first plan review doesn’t go the way you hoped. With the right information, support, and determination, you can navigate the NDIS bureaucracy and make sure your voice is heard. Your goals and needs matter, and you deserve a plan that truly supports you in living your best life.

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